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Building a career, gotting married, creating a good social network, living up to good standards…
Was what mattered really doing the things people would approve of and celebrate?
Was it building the life our parents wanted for us?
But what if it didn’t turn out that way? What if the relationships break down?
This life was built on a cycle of formation and deformation. Relationships were the same. Throughout history, even the relationships for prophets, sultans, and kings between their families had broken down for one reason or another. Was there any chance that anyone would be an exception?
Rather than building a structure on a shaky foundation, it would have might be better to destroy it and build a new one.

(to be continued…)

Our Responsibilities

We, as responsible people, sometimes take on too much responsibilities. We want to take on “important” roles. Then those burdens become too heavy, and we can’t handle them. Or we can’t fully live up to our roles, and we fail. As time goes by and our life experiences pile up, we become more pessimistic. Then we retreat back into our shells, become resentful, get hurt, get angry, or breakdown our relationships. We begin to lose ourselves in life and among other people. First and foremost, while we are responsible for ourselves. Is it even possible to do something with common sense for someone else without changing, getting better our own thoughts and perspective?

Research– Break the parental approval

The article in given source serves as a step-by-step guide to seeking parental approval from childhood through adulthood. The need for approval is explained by references to scientific articles. Overcoming the pull for parental approval actually signifies discovering self-worth and toward a life, more self-assured and shaped by our own choices. ¹

Perspective: Fight Club (movie)

“Maybe we have to break everything to make something better out of ourselves.”